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Sunday, August 12, 2007

10 days old...

It's so hard to believe that Brayden is already 10 days old! I guess now would be a good time to tell about the day of her birth...

I went to the doctor on August 1st and the midwife said I was dilated to a 3. She said that something could happen within the next 24 hours. I didn't want to get my hopes up, but went home and got someone to watch Kennan so that Kenny and I could get some errands done and the house cleaned up. We went to sleep that night and I woke up at about 4am (August 2nd) and started timing contractions. They weren't too consistent or too painful, so I tried to go back to sleep. I called the midwife at 6:15am because they were 4-6 minutes apart. Because I tested positive for GBS I would need to get 2 doses of antibiotics before she was born, so we needed to make sure I got to the hospital in plenty of time. She said to stay home and call back when they were worse (meaning: I couldn't talk through them). I called back at 7:00 and talked a different midwife because they had had a shift change. She said to take a shower, eat something light, and head up to the hospital. It was a Thursday, so we took Kennan to school and arranged for a friend to pick him up at noon. We got to the hospital at about 8:30 and by 9:30 were on our way home again. She said that my labor wasn't active enough and that I would be more comfortable at home. Somehow Kenny and I both managed to fall asleep and woke up around 11:00 with really painful contractions. I got up and walked around and they continued to get worse. I called the midwife at 11:30 (unable to talk to her while having contractions) and she said to head back to the hospital. We got there and were all hooked up to the monitors around 12:15. The nurse checked me and I was at 4cm. They ordered the antibiotic and the midwife came and broke my water around 1:15 after the antibiotic was started. I got in the jacuzzi tub around 2pm and when I got out was at 8cm. I remember looking at the clock at 3:00 and thinking it felt like we had been there for an eternity (and it had only been 3 hours!!). I started pushing at about 3:15 and she was born at 3:39pm!!! That last part flew by quickly, but painfully. I ended up having her without any medicine or epidural and don't regret the choice. I feel like I recovered a lot more quickly than I did with Kennan (I had an epidural with him). I ended up hemorraging a little after she was born, but not near as much as I did with Kennan. All in all, it was a good experience but I don't want to do it again for a looong time!

Right now my parents and brother are visiting and helping out A LOT!! Kenny is still working at the hospital and finishes up on Friday (I think we are going to have a party!!). Brayden is doing well...we are still working on the nursing and I am hoping it will continue to get easier and easier. (Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!!!) Kennan is being a wonderful big brother. He likes to hold her and gives her a pacifier whenever she is fussy. Here a few pictures...
I think there is a baby picture of me somewhere that looks a lot like this...
Kennan got to go to the Jersey Shore with Grammy, Pops, and Uncle Kyle


Sleepy girl!

6 comments:

LoriLoo310 said...

Reading this post brings back so many memories of Nathan's first days.

Nursing is hard, anyone who tells you different is wrong ... just plain wrong. The best advice I have is to try to tough it out for at least six weeks. After the six-week mark it should get considerably easier and more second nature.

Brayden is such a doll and so lucky to have wonderful parents like you and Kenny!

Carissa said...

Cute pictures! Brayden does look a lot like you. I am SO proud of you for delivering naturally.

I also didn't know that you were going to nurse Brayden. Did you nurse Kennan? For some reason I'm thinking you didn't.

When I get back from my dad's and Milwaukee (in two weeks) I'm going to try to set a date in stone to come visit. I can't wait!!!

Travis & Jeri Tidmore said...

These are great pictures. Thanks for the "advice" the other day on the phone. I'm still pretty set on a natural delivery, but I am going to check on the hospital stuff. I am wondering if they have midwives there and stuff. Yours was just with the hospital, right?
jeri

LoriLoo310 said...

Oh and also, buying a good electric breast pump was one of the best investments I ever made. Don't waste your money on the hand-pump ones. It's worth the extra money for an electric one. We had a stock-pile of milk in the freezer in case I had to be somewhere and couldn't bring Nate with me, or if I wanted an uninterrupted nap I could have Brandon feed him. It will get easier and easier!

Katie McB. said...

Jennifer!
She is beautiful. She looks just like you!

Leslie said...

thanks for the story, I was wondering how it all paned out. She is a cutie

Les